Thank you so much for your tidbits of advice. I was in agreement to all three of the post to my issue, but I just needed someone else besides the voice in my heart to guide me. My child (Jake) is my purpose in life and needs to be my primary focus. I know this will pass in time, but for now it really sucks!! I will not get involved. If it is meant to be that my family will re-unite as one full of love it will happen. If not, I will survive. Confused$$