Thank you for writing to me. Your compliment was one of the, to me, best and most sincere compliments I have received for quite some time (although I do appreciate all compliments and kindness, your words to me really stuck a chord)
Two years ago I would have reacted as you described. I am honoured to be some kind of positive model for you
I learned this lesson in the School of Hard Knocks.

I would much rather I had learnt it some other way. It would have saved me hours, weeks, months, of pain

But, nevertheless, learnt it is

You