I wish that I had some specific advice for you to follow, and help your daughter through the pain of "first love", but I don't. I just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking positive, good thoughts for you. I hope that your daughter sees the light soon. Such a difficult time of life! Especially having to sit on your thumbs as you see your daughter making poor decisions ~ I have 2 daughters myself, and don't look forward to that time in their lives. Very best wishes to you and your family!