Tell him he's being a freak and creeping you out and that he needs to cut it the hell out. Don't go along with it at all. See your friend if you want to. Don't see him if you don't feel like it. After you've put your foot down, if your husband makes a comment then immediately turn on your heel and walk away so you don't have to be exposed to it anymore. Give him no response whatsoever.

There's an element of control to all this. Take it back. We are only as weak and helpless as we let ourselves be.