And you will. They are out there. Unfortunately you can't know right off the bat if that's the type of man he is. It takes time to get to know someone to the point of knowing whether they'll take care of you or not. With that in mind, and considering your mania at times, be extra careful not to get carried away with any guy you start dating and fall for them too fast. Everyone has their best foot forward during the early days of a relationship, during courting.