I wish someone had told me that opening up really is the key to getting better. I wouldnt have spent 15 years suffering in silence. If you can share what is happening with you they can get you what you need. However no one can twist your arm to make this happen... Myself included

So the choice is ultimately yours. If you chose to walk away from this opportunity now, maybe the best thing to consider would be to do a little research to see what Ts and such are available to you in the area and try to find someone that seems like what you are looking for because even that would continue to be progress that you could feel proud of