thank you so much The worst thing of all is that this is just the tip of the iceberg. So much else has been said. She doesn't seem to understand how much of this bad stuff is coming from her. Worst of all...she'd been so, so kind and caring and wonderful and supportive for almost four years. She's been amazing. There were some difficulties since she started the new job, I'd say, but I survived them. This really bad stuff started at the beginning of last October, and it's kept getting worse. Before then, she was amazing. I've lost so much.