It took me a long time, and I still struggle with this, but it is necessary to stand up to people or they simply won't respect you. When I have stuck up for myself, people always back down coz their not sure of themselves in the first place, and they are venting their own frustrations by picking on someone whom they think is weaker. Anyone who is truly balanced and whole never picks on others...never!

I'm saddened that the world is the way it is. I feel for you.