I'm not second guessing God's plan. I just feel it's really irresponsible in the first place for someone that is in remission for breast cancer to put herself in a position to become pregnant. There are ways to prevent pregnancy, including abstinence. Maybe I feel very strongly to this as I watched my sister go through a really horrendous battle with breast cancer after her second child was born, he was not even a year old when this happened. The chemo she took was so toxic that no one was to use the same toilet in the house after she returned back from treatment...and I remember it had to be flushed three times, even if it was just urine...just goes to show you how toxic that can be.

God gave man the tools, and insight to make formulated decisions...it was man that hooked her up to machines to keep her alive long after God called her back home, without man's intervention she and the baby would have died. Now a child is without a mother, and has an uncertain future, she isn't out of the woods yet. I just feel it is so sad, but from a different perspective.

Lisa