Yep, you let her win & she won't have to say anything any more because you will be dead.......those are really only the 2 options with anorexia......fight or die. That does end up being your decision because the bottom line is that it always is our decision. It's what you want most out of life.

I had a long period where I didn't care & I didn't want life......so I let the anorexia win even after the treatment center.......but for me with all the stress & the bad marriage I felt trapped in.....that felt like my only way out......but it was up to me to decide in the end......& it is for you also.

Sometimes the battles we are in don't feel worth fighting any longer.....but there is more to look at in life than that. Also I have found that when the anorexia is winning it's because there are deeper issues in our life that we aren't addressing....much deeper than just the anorexia.