I'm back. I'm sorry, but the more I think about what this Christian counselor is saying about your previous therapy work not being "blessed by God", the more insanely angry I get.

This may come off as a bit of a rant, so I apologize in advance. As I said before, I am a Christian, but it makes me crazy when people professing to be Christian start making judgments about what God would "bless" or not. That is NOT a mainstream Christian stance about therapy, and who the heck came down from heaven and blessed this counselor with intimate knowledge of what God would or wouldn't "bless" in therapy? That is honestly a truly warped Christian ideology. I say run for the hills away from this counselor now that I think more about it. Did you hear this from the counselor's mouth, or was this message given to you by your husband? I ask because if it didn't come from the horse's mouth, perhaps your husband is misinterpretting what the counselor said? That would be my hope, but I fear differently.

Again, if you think in any way your current T can talk some reason into this Christian T, it might be worth a shot. Otherwise, I would try to sever ties which it looks like may cause a rift between you and your husband. Ack! Horrible situation for you. So sorry.