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Old Jan 17, 2013, 03:31 PM
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Originally Posted by dark_heart_x View Post
My uncle has passed away now, so he no longer takes odd jobs because his mom is very ill and not able to help. But you can see this has had a bad effect on him. He's more depressed now (plus he was very close to his dad.)
Yeah. Work is about more than money. This is something my son really struggles with. He doesn't need a job for money. He needs a job for:

1. social contact;
2. something to do;
3. self-worth and dignity;
4. self-esteem;
5. new challenges;
6. making a contribution to society;
etc., etc., etc.

When he's not working, he mostly sits at home and watches tv and smokes. Then he starts saying he's only 27, will this be his whole life? He has no hobbies and doesn't want to do volunteer work or go back to school. So, that leaves a job to fill the hours.
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