Well, some people get too hurt when a spouce cheats on them, and they just can't excuse it or even know how to trust, really trust, ever again.

Honestly, my husband cheated on me and if I didn't have a child to think about, I may have very well left him. I have done my best to try to forgive him, but it just isn't the same and I still have a very hurt part of me I don't know what to do with. He tells me he loves me, I am his best friend and will never do it again, but, honestly, if he felt that way, he would not have done it at all IMO.

I didn't find out right away, and for along time he was often not right with me, picking on me and moody, that was because he hated the guilt. So, I know for a fact that "guilt" is bad for any relationship as the "guilty one can often end up almost hating the person they betrayed".

You betrayed him, and you have to accept the consequences, and my suggestion it to "move on and find another relationship knowing that you need to respect "trust"".

Open Eyes