Thanks for the reply. I can imagine if he cheated on me that I would feel the same way. I understand that some people just cannot get over it but there are other marriages that do survive it. I was hoping we could. It is hard letting all those good 10 years together go for one mistake which I realize is a huge mistake and I am very embarassed to even talk about it. I just feel horrible about it. But I know that I have to move on and be completly free of him. I have heard it takes 2 years to get over a divorce and it has been 2 years and I am definitly not over it!