(((MxChick)))

Personally, that would bug the HELL out of me!! A subdued glance or two is one thing...but repeatedly staring at every blonde that is nearby is rude, imo. I don't think that you are super-jealous..I think that he's behaving inappropriately.

Adding his tendency to bring up how he's been with so many hot girls, that makes me think that he's insecure & simply brags about his conquests to make himself feel better. Unfortunately, he doesn't admit his behavior...otherwise working through the issues would be a lot easier!

Perhaps you could try pointing out the fact that it bothers you to hear about his past successes. You aren't living in the past ~ you're living in present day. Is it possible for him to stop bringing up the past and enjoy the here and now? Is he dissatisfied being with you? Are you special to him at all? I'd assure him that while I don't need him to avoid all other aspects of life, I do need to know that I'm a top priority in his life. Not just another notch in his belt! How can you two wok together to satisfy one another emotionally? What is he willing to DO to reassure you that you are special? What can you DO to reassure him as he fights his insecurities? You two need to work together to make it through this ongoing issue. If you leave it alone, it will eventually cause a deep divide between the two of you. Work on fixing this now.

I wish you both the best ~ try to be patient and understanding towards one another. Take care!

Oh, and to Psych Central!