Hamster's post reminded me of a book I have. It's a cook book for cooking for one or two from the 80's. It actually still has some pretty good recipes and ideas in it. But one of the things they mentioned was going out a buying fancy dinnerware in sets of one or two. And then treat yourself, just you, to a fancy (but still simple) meal. Light candles. Put on music. Enjoy your food that you cooked. Dress up the table with a pretty table cloth and flowers. And while you're eating, remember this is all for you. Just for you. Because you're worth it. Because you're beautiful, just as you are, and you deserve happiness.