Yes I agree with everyone on this post, but did you ever think of the phrase : all i needed was a good cry:sometimes i wish i could cry havn't since in about 5 years, for some reason I can't cry, and the last time I did I was so relievved and it was in front of a lot of mental patients when I was in the hospital. At first they made fun of me but since it got to be soo bad as i was going on without stop, when i did stop I was told I moved them.It was the best cry i ever had, i usually never cried, but boy that felt good!!! avlady