i'm sorry for your perdicament. I have night terrors every night for a very long time years and years I mean. i found out i had sleep apnea, use a breathing machine with air pressure to breathe, i still get the night terror dreams and have to tell myself it was just a dream when i wake up, sometimes i don't even know if it was true or not, I'm sorry i can't help you in any other way, but try getting a sleep apnea test they do them out of your home nowadays.Can you get medicaid or medicare?/