Thread: Facial expressions, body language, and tone of voice
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Old Jan 18, 2013, 03:21 PM
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Originally Posted by bluefish27 View Post
Do these things bother you guys ? I seem to be extremely sensitive to them. If someone looks at me in a weird way, has an attitude, or uses weird tones of voice around me I can be greatly disturbed and irritated for days. Doesn't everyone notice others attitudes around them ? Is it just my reactions that are different ? This has caused a lot of grief for me in social interactions and relationship building.
I do the same thing.

That's why I have so much trouble dealing with others. One day I will get past it. Not yet, though; it's still going on.

It can be quite discouraging. I know.

My mentor says "the real enemy is your own thought, Carol." Even if someone else is actually upset with me or putting me down, I am the one doing it the most. Putting myself down.

Carol
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