When I was in a mixed state & very agitated, I "fired" several therapists I went to for what some might think are petty issues.
One wanted me to hold a doll. Never went back to her.
One I went to several times didn't have any receipts one time so she said she would give it to me the next week. Well, she wouldn't like it if I told her I'd give her the check the next week. Plus she was all dolled up--obviously spent a lot of time at the gym, had her nails done, wore short skirts & even shoes where I could see she had a pedicure. I thought if she has all this time to spend making herself beautiful, she certainly can run up some receipts on the copier before I arrived. Also, I was feeling very down about my weight so I didn't like how attractive she was! Course I didn't tell her any of these reasons, just never went back.
The third one had her thesis in the waiting room. I started reading it & found several typos & spelling errors. I immediately judged her to be incompetent.--Suzy
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