My brother is OCD, controlling, N and drives me insane (sorry). I just cannot be around him. His house is like a museum. Our office is so industrial looking and just white, chrome and glass. A couole of red accent chairs. I am a miserable nervous wreck around him. Our last big falling out is because he called me and yelled at me and was all demanding at 5:30 in the morning because things literally werent perfect to his eye. Sheesh.

Thank the Lord I am not married to him. I wouldnt be able to take it...

You are much stronger than I, dear friend!

I guess the thing to remember is that it is his Dx and his problem and he will have to work on it if he wants to overcome. But it is not your job to enable his sickness by adhering to his demands. You have enough on your plate. I dont mean to sound harsh but it truly is his problem to fix.

This is probably a really great topic to bring up with T next session. Esp because he refuses to take his Rx. You are not a maid servant. I do know how much you care about him and have enormous compassion for his upbringing (which I would think is a lot of the reason why he is so ocd, controlling). It isnt his fault, but also you shouldnt have to live that way. Nor the children. It is a stress factory! Not healthy at all for you and your healing and making gains

Luv to you, Rose