You and me have very similar symptoms and life. I was also misdiagnosed a few times and from time to time I have a desire to find out what's wrong with me, but I'm actually afraid to get labeled, perhaps I became afraid and tired of getting misdiagnosed but if you or me have asperger then whatever, its something that can't be cured ;D
Instead of being fanatic and desperate about my condition, I try to find out how to live my life. have purposes, enjoy life, BE here! Of course its hard like this but even if I could have my answers, still I would be the same person with the same problems, it won't go away. Anyway, I hope you can share your thoughts and feelings in real life too with someone who care about you, but here, we're all ears, so go on Take care