Sounds like you've been thru a rough month or so, I just caught up with your posts. Wow. It sounds like your T rather made an *** of himself by reporting you. Maybe that's more about him than you? Maybe he should have reported in the past and he didn't, so now he's trigger happy? Whatever the reason, what's done is done. Do you really feel you were a good match with him? A book I've been reading, The Psychotherapy of the Quiet Borderline Patient, says we will latch onto the first T who comes along. I know that's what I do. Rotten parents, rotten Ts, what's the diff, we make do. We honestly don't know what it's like to have someone connect and care. Sometimes court is our first run-in with sanity and fairness, with having our voice heard.