Does your husband do this when he's on the medication or did he just have a med change?I don't know how you can stand it.I'm not an unclean person but i do get to take breaks in housework, it's going to tale it's toll on you , you need to talk to him. i suppose he already know how you feel, I'd be going mental on him everyone has their boiling point. My son came home for 2 day and he;'s become a neat freak out there, he did dishes in the middle of the night and took everything out of the cupboards and cleaaned them all even if it didn't need cleaning, I'm wondering how long we'll think of letting him crash here for the nights,I hope it doesn't turn for the worse. pray for me I'll pray for you.