Hi Milly. My T has forgotten quite a few things that were so important to me (even though she's usually very good at remembering everything). The forgotten things always felt so hurtful, particularly when I was relying on what she'd forgotten. From the years I've seen her, I've learned that her forgetting an arrangement is not the same as her forgetting me altogether. I know it feels like it must be about us, if they cared they would not forget something so important. It's really not that though, and forgetting to do something doesn't mean you're forgotten altogether and not cared about. I hope you're able to talk about this with your T and that it helps. I know it's tough.