I think this is serious, and could be potentially explosive. Just reading it kind of reminds me of being with controlling guys in the past. It doesn't matter how many people think you look good together, or belong togehter, it matters how she feels.

I agree, she's growing, life doesn't stand still. That's why many relationships in our younger years are not lasting because sometimes life just branches us off in other directions.

You can seek counseling at school. All colleges have them, it's a part of your student priveleges. It does sound more like you are very anxious, and it comes out as anger. Anger is depression masked. Talking with someone at the school will help you gain the tools you need to get this on the right track.

Keeping yourself busy, will help divert some of the anxiety, but it's not addressing the problem, and while you still have the ability to speak with someone at school I'd utilize that. Hey, what have you to lose? Nothing. You have everything to gain though!!!

best of luck, Lisa