How do you know if you are straight, gay or bisexual? I only ask because I'm in my thirties, female and have always been with guys. I was married right after graduate school and explored porn with my husband (who is now my ex), and I think female porn turns me on more than anything else.

I find women beautiful and am attracts to specific body parts. I am currently divorced and have been dating guys, and have never dated women. I don't picture myself with a woman as I get older, but I picture myself with a man, having a family, etc. I just think women's beautiful. I don't really get excited about the idea of dating women-it actually terrifies me! I just feel more comfortable with men.

So, am I gay since I masterbate to women? Or am I bi since I like men and women? But idk if I'd ever date a woman, so maybe it's just a physical attraction? I'm welcome to your suggestions as to what I am ? I'm just a little confused.