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Originally Posted by healed84
Soooo frustrated. H says he is on board with leaving, wants to wait a couple of weeks, oh and is meeting with our pastor and the wife next Friday (right in the middle of t appointment, uh hello.. you watch the kids when I am there).. I don't get it. Then he just asked me if I even wanted to stay married to him. I don't know what the hell is going on with my life.
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Healed, how did you respond to his question? Did you mention that the meeting is during your T session?
I figured out that I contributed more than i thought to my marriage problems... (not saying this is your case) and since I realize that things have gotten a little better and I've been able to explain it a little better to my H.. since I have a fearful attachment style whenever my H gets too emotionally close... I create some issue to put some distance between us .. so H is better about not taking us down the cycle path...
I hope you and your H can get to a place where you can really talk about the true issues without throwing around the "d" word...