This is just an update for amusement purposes.
So I should probably amend my profile to add that besides dates I can be engaged for mental health support groups face to face.
This is because...
The guy who has written a book, on a third date, volunteered that he has depression and after many medications tried, seems to be doing well on Lexapro. I unwittingly provoked his disclosure. This is OK, depression is depression, he is exceedingly nice, I think I lucked out on him and I will go out with him again tomorrow.
Another guy, completely unprovoked, volunteered that he spent ten thousand dollars on nine months of therapy following the demise of his marriage... that lasted only eighteen months. This together with a few other things was a showstopper for me so I did not go on more dates with him. The only cool thing about him was his explaining of what the company he works for does. It develops drugs for diabetes and erectile dysfunction, and he said erectile dysfunction with such a straight face as if it were common cold. I liked that. But not everything else.
I have not had time to go on more food dates.
So far I am meeting with mental health consumers only, hundred percent.