My first English teacher, a totally awesome, one of a kind guy, is bi turned gay. He is just the sweetest and coolest around. Unfortunately I lost track of him many years ago. At any rate, some fifteen years ago when I was inbetween marriages, he said: what? You have never tried lesbian lifestyle?? Come on, you have not begun to live your life! And sometimes I think that what if he is right and I am missing out on something grand, but at the same time I have no inclination...

If you are currently completely free and if you at least some inclination, why not experiment? Go to plenty of fish and put up a profile saying that you are unsure but do. Appreciate feminine beauty. And then see what happens. Let it unfold. Trust chance for a bit.