That's an interesting way to look at things, for sure! Actually it's a refreshing way to look at things! I actually did just that- and I was online listed as "woman looking for woman" but I didn't get any hits! I even messaged a few people and nothing really panned out. So I chalked it up to not enough fish in the sea, u know?

When people ask me at work how it's going I wanna say I'm dating women! But I don't. I work at a college so it's really liberal and a handful of my select friends (coworkers) would be like, oh cool! But I also don't think it's appropriate. Well, come to think of it why wouldn't it be appropriate. If we talk about my dating life then why not? Yea, I'll still keep it to myself. But my best friends know- I told them that I'm atleast bi. So that was a little liberating to admit it and be supported.

Maybe I'll try it again. I'm afraid of admitting I'm curious ( on a site) and having someone take advantage of my new-ness, if that makes any sense. I have a gay friend who is married and she said to just be careful that I'm not an experiment for someone else...like a "challenge" for them to try and use me. Idk what I think about that comment but still! Something to think about!

Thanks for the suggestion though. I think I need to just get some courage and do it!