Thanks everyone. I'm gonna research on the computer as well.

Sconnie-I try to focus on the here and now at times in T, but she always somehow relates every little thing to the past! It irks me sometimes. "Hey T, I went out dinner with my sister last night and ordered the eggplant"
"Well Jersey, tell me more about the eggplant. I think you ordered that because your parents never showed you love"

Okay...maybe not that bad but you get the point...