In reading all your posts, I can understand where each of you is coming from and why you feel the way you do. It is a sad story, but at the same time, there is possibility for great joy to come of it. All any of us can do in life is make the best informed decisions that we can, whether they be right or wrong. We never truly know what the outcome of any of our decisions will be. We can assume what will happen, but there is no guarentee in life, only in death. On that note, I received this lovely prayer today from a friend and thought it might be appropriate to share in this thread. It really backs up what Tanya has stated...

Best Prayer I Have Heard In A Long Time...

Heavenly Father, Help us remember that the jerk who cut us off in traffic
last night is a single mother who worked nine hours that day and is rushing home to cook dinner, help with homework, do the laundry and spend a few precious moments with her children.

Help us to remember that the pierced, tattooed, disinterested young man who can't make change correctly is a worried 19-year-old college student, balancing his apprehension over final exams with his fear of not getting his student loans for next semester.

Remind us, Lord, that the scary looking bum, begging for money in the same spot every day (who really ought to get a job!) is a slave to addictions that we can only imagine in our worst nightmares.

Help us to remember that the old couple walking annoyingly s low through the store aisles and blocking our shopping progress are savoring this moment, knowing that, based on the biopsy report she got back last week, this will be the last year that they go shopping together.

Heavenly Father, remind us each day that, of all the gifts you give us, the
greatest gift is love. It is not enough to share that love with those we
hold dear. Open our hearts not to just those who are close to us, but to
all humanity. Let us be slow to judge and quick to forgive, show patience, empathy and love.