You are in the right place. There is nothing wrong with not being married with three kids and a picket fence. Some people just choose not to be in a relationship. There is also nothing wrong with having women as friends.

I'm forty nine, divorced with no desire to get into another relationship. My friend is a woman, married, and there is no intimacy involved. Its a personal decision, and you will never be judged here.

Can you elaborate on exactly what it is that you are confused about? If it makes you uncomfortable, you don't have to, but if you are comfortable here, maybe we can help you work out some of your confusion.

Sam2