I think as well as building self esteem , what about building self confidence?
I know I need to work on both, that is why I have so much anxiety with jobs etc.
<font color=red>~Sundance~</font color=red>
<font color=blue>"Never react emotionally to criticism. Analyze yourself to determine whether it is justified. If it is, correct yourself. Otherwise, go on about your business."</font color=blue>
<font color=black>Norman Vincent Peale</font color=black>