I was quite lucky that my T was a lot like that in my early days in therapy. I wasn't expecting it, but that really practical, problem solving, every day goal stuff really helped me. I'm not sure I'm keen for more therapy myself right now. Not sure I can afford to continue with anything though. I needed the strong attachment that I developed with my therapist, although it was totally unplanned and I didn't really have a concept of missing anything before it developed. I think T's have to be so careful though, because now I'm just being left on my own in a way that really replicates my earlier life. Yuck. No more T for me and no more thinking about attachment and what I missed out on!

I'll have to see how I go on my own, but maybe the life coaching idea isn't such a bad one. I hope you find what you're looking for Jersey...