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Old Jan 21, 2013, 12:09 AM
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Spanking is performed by people vanilla and bdsm alike. There are many vanilla couples--meaning people who have no interests in kink/bdsm--who enjoy spanking each other with their hands or with paddles. It's actually a very normal practice, there are more people who do it then you think. It's also normal for vanilla couples to experiment with outfits or role-playing without considering themselves into kink or bdsm. Don't worry so much about the label but about your body and how far you are willing to push yourself or your partner.

I'm also into spanking my partner, though I wouldn't want to be the one being spanked, and I'm sure there are many people here who also enjoy spanking. Hope this makes you feel less alone.
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