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Originally Posted by Rose Panachée
I will refrain from voting as well because it really is up to you and how much you are willing to bend to meet his demands. I do know that living in this type of environment can truly start to take its toll and does a number on your self esteem. It can go from bad to worse real quick. Usually temper tantrums and outbursts are part of the package. If this is how you wish to live and you are ok with it...
Have you suggested getting a housekeeper to come in once a week?
On a lighter note, leave him a bill for services rendered. I believe the going rate these days ranges anywhere between 40 and 120 / hour with a four hour minimum 
Best of luck to you  |
Thank you all for your support, the house cleaning is far from my problem, I actually enjoy cleaning. It is the ungratefulness, and the fact that he makes it even harder for me bt leaving extra mess everywhere. Thenhe says that I ***** nad nag all the time. I AM FAR FROM PERFECT... I do however keep his new house clean, food cooked, and emotional needs met, when allowed.....
I know that he works hard.. when we got together he told me that he would not be with a drug addict, I told him I would not be with a gamer... well guess whos sober, and who has made it to level who knows what... 4errrr