Good thoughts from Anika there. And good for you honoring your boundaries! Hugely important! Making plans in and of itself is good --
faaar better than just "waiting by the phone" as they say. (Because what would that accomplish, except to "train" someone to disrespectful habits? Certainly not a good way to start off a good relationship -- romantic or not!).
What better way to cultivate respect from him than to show it for yourself?!
One thing though?
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Originally Posted by doggiedo
...But I'm afraid I'm never going to find anyone to complete me...
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No one can complete you (or anyone else). Because YOU ARE already COMPLETE!

You really are. Please remember that, ok?