I lost a good friend of mine at age 16. I'm 52 now and I swear the girl haunts me.I feel her presence every day. I can always say I have her by my side, if that helps, plus I pray for her and her family every day. I also lost my sister at 16 too in 1987, but her I don't feel so much anymore. Maybe I never got peace from the first one, it doesn't bother me it's just there. my sister used to bother me for years, but now I'm at the point of peace with her death, I just don't know why not the other one?