I really don't know what OCD is, but I bet I'll learn on this website,i've seen many talking about it. It sounds alot like my son's father, he wanted me to do everything for him, go only the places he would like to go, he treated me like I was a slave, and it's not so funny anymore because if i ever told anyone they would have seen what he did to me they would probably laugh thinking it was a joke. it's not a joke i can joke about it now since I seperated from him, we were not married but engaged and i ended up pregnant. He was a sick man who needed help and wouldn't get it. He said it was his choice if he wanted to drink alcholol but i told him i can't handle his demanding attitude towards me and he said "nobody would want you" He would take me out to differrent situations where he would degrade me in public, and i would have to walk away like a dog with his tail downturned, this is so embarrassing even to write that i myself let someone do that to me because I was afraid to be alone, I thought no one would love me ever, and one day I got the courage to get up and walk out,before he could lock the door on me. My son was 2 at the time, I had to go to the 7-11 and call the police to get my son out of the apartment.Fortunately, we weren't married so I went to court for custody battle and they gave me my son because we never married, i found out i didn't even have to go through the case afterwards because of the fact he never married me. THANK GOD!!!!!!!!!avady