I used to be a mess, when I was still living with my parents they hated when I cooked, because I made one hell of a mess and would not pick it back. I have trained myself to be better but I always struggle my bit with organization. Like you, I do 10 things at the same time, it just takes me longer to get as frustrated; I will not give up! So after you throw that pan, pick it back up and start over if you need to. ;-)