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Old Jan 21, 2013, 07:48 PM
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I try to be honest, I like to let my T know first what has been going on. She has made me promise (she didn't have to make me, I was scared to death and would have done what she asked anyway) if she said not to go home w/ him I wouldn't. HE is verbally and emotionally abusive. She is concerned about me staying w/ him for my saftey. She is not certin what his anger looks like.

I am afraid to be honest w/ him present. The T knows that and only asks for the minimal amount of info. I try to be honest when things happen. I'm not dishonest, I just am not the most forth coming. I am w/ her when it is the T and me, she understands my nervousness w/ my H. I'll have to go home w/ him at night not her. She is on my speed dial.