Because he and I both need to go I am torn. I really need to go for myself as well. So which is most beneficial.

I fell like it will be me complaining session if it is me and T. If it is me and my H then nothing will really get accomplished most likely.

As it turns out I think I am going, just me. I need to go alone for a change. I got a lot on me and if it seems like a complaining session, I am sorry but I gotta get this stuff out. Get me strightned out and I can deal better w/ him.