Thanks, again. You're right. At the same time, I'm not really sure how to be a good judge of all of this beforehand. I did not feel very disrespected by the guy while we were with each other.. He was actually quite sweet in that he asked if I was comfortable and he held me after we were done. He didn't rush to leave, but I told him that he should leave, and although I felt like everything happened fast, I didn't feel used then. I'm not sure if my standards for feeling respected are low because of what I have had happen in the past.

Only now... I figure that the best way to prevent this would be to have sex when in a relationship. I considered the morning after pill, but I think I'm okay this time, and honestly, I do feel like I trust that this guy was genuinely careful. I just had always wanted to be extra safe is all.