But why does it matter if these women think your husband is hot? He is married to you and you trust him right? Even if she is thinking she wants to jump his bones and wondering why he is with you, so what? That isn't any of your business is it? Certainly you have your own private thoughts about others even those you like!
Be thankful for what you have. What others think about you is not any of your business even if they're not so great at hiding it.
I've also got this rather strange ability to read people.
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