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"you shouldn't have to ask anyone for acknowledgement. If ppl really liked you or got something out of your posts, they would respond naturally. They just aren't saying anything to you cause they have nothing nice to say to you."
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Many Hugs to you
I don't think it is that no one has nothing nice to say to you,
I think what Buttercup has said, some times people are not sure what to say- or how to go about with giving advice.
This situation with your room mate and you, sounds like a growing point for you.
Have you two had a serious sit down talk? I don't know if that would help at all, but at least it may get some questions you are asking here out to him- the source to which they are aimed for (right?)
Spaces with a friendship is hard on anyone, and can be more of a struggle for others. (I had difficult time with one friend, and the overwhelming of "I am being left again" came through and it was hard--- but it does work out, some how some way--)
I can so hear you on the not being in therapy thing (I tend to say that to myself- I am taking a route less traveled so it is unwanted)- But in honesty-- PC is a great place.... I think a lot of people like to try to help each other and encourage one another, weather that be in psychotherapy OR you Doing Therapy on your own.
Many hugs and well thoughts your way- Reminders to be kind to yourself