I am also a homemaker, some days are just to much to handle, those kinds of days are getting better, but I'm battleing a cold, I would even invite you here to take care of me just joking, you sound like Superwoman, there actually is a sort of Superwoman syndrome as I read somewhere once, you don't have to do what ever you don't want to do concerning housework, your husband or boyfriend? should lift a finger at least once in a while and a thank you goes a long way!!!it's a two way street.