Are there any new mom/mom to be clubs in your area? I never joined one due to my tendancy to isolate, but I hear they can be great for new moms so they are not at home all day. Plus you have a chance to make other mom friends, which is kind of important. I have a co-worker friend with three boys, she's my age and her boys are the same as my two older boys, and so we vent about our kids together.