I agree with the above. And also, women feel things more emotionally and more often than men do. We are more empathetic, and have different horemones and different brains, and we need our men to be rocks for us. Don't feel bad about feeling a great sence of loss and fear for your cat. I would too. And I'm really sorry to hear you may lose her. My eyes tear up too, just thinking about it! Allow your man to support you, take strength from him. Your sorrow may be an expression for him too.